“My head is going to explode,” “I’m hot,” “I’m freezing,” “The kids are sleeping, we’ll wake them up,” “The kids are awake, they’ll hear us”… Rarely can a woman honestly say that she’s not a “sinner” when it comes to making excuses for avoiding intimate contact.

Yes, sex is an indispensable piece in the puzzle called “a strong love union,” but sometimes, regardless of the reasons, the last thing that comes to mind is sex. Although excuses are not necessary to reject proposals that we don’t like, we most often use them to avoid hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it comes to the feelings of a person who means a lot to us – our loved one.

So, what are the classic excuses that women use en masse to postpone sex with their partner?

“We’ll wake the kids.” Is this your excuse even when you know that the kids are in the deepest stage of sleep and nothing can wake them up? Who are you kidding? Well, sex doesn’t have to be loud, and you know that.
“I have a terrible headache.” This excuse is slowly, slowly starting to lose its power, because the latest research shows that sex can actually act as an analgesic and cure a headache.
“I’m on my period/PMS.” Sometimes women use this excuse twice a month. And it always works.
“I haven’t waxed/shaved.” Ingrown hairs on the legs can make a woman feel less sexy, but they don’t kill a man’s desire for sex. Most men will never hold it against their beloved for forgetting to use a razor or epilator.
“The kids are awake, they can hear us or come in.” Although they shouldn’t, children are often the reason for the existence of sexless marriages. Parents have to play “criminals” from time to time and steal intimate moments while hiding.
“I haven’t showered/I haven’t brushed my teeth.” So what are you waiting for? It only takes a few minutes to prepare for an unforgettable experience under the sheets.
“I ate too much. I can’t move.” Who feels sexy on a full and bloated stomach? However, why not look on the bright side. Sex can help you burn off some of the calories you took in with your last meal.
“I’m too cold.” A great reason to say no to something, but not if it has the power to warm you up.
“It’s hot as hell, we’re going to sweat.” So what? Showering is always a good option for cooling down during the tropical heat. In such situations, perhaps the best solution is sex in the shower.
“I’m not in the mood.” No wonder. When millions of thoughts are spinning in your head and dozens of obligations are waiting for you, sex falls to the bottom of the priority list. However, do not forget that sex can actually improve your mood. Lie down with your partner next to each other and try not to think about anything. Skin-to-skin contact will ignite your desire for physical intimacy.
“I have to get up very early tomorrow.” This is a classic among excuses. The reality is that sex does not take much time. Do you have 10 minutes at your disposal? So you have enough time for sex, and believe me, the next morning you will wake up with more energy and a smile on your face.